confident
people are wrongly portrayed
What
is Confidence? The feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something.
It is trust sometimes. It is a natural expression of ability, expertise, and
self-regard.
Don’t
criticize the confidence. It is not bravery or bold decision. It is self-belief.
It is a feeling that you think you are capable of doing something.
I have seen few confident people around me and I really respect them. I am
always in contact with them through mobile and social media.
Let’s
see some good points, which might help us to find out truly confident people.
They like to be foolish
As Steve job
said: “stay hungry, stay foolish” is mantra for better life. So they will chose
better life not success.
They will honest for they’re wrong done
They
will admit their mistake and never mind if somebody laugh on it or will make
bad comments for their mistake. They always speak about or silly alternate for
the problem and give equal importance to all silly matters. So, people may
unhappy with them and they admit it.
So,
after silly mistake or wrong done if you laugh on them then they will also
laugh with you.
They will take approval for all responsible people who helped to
solved the problem
You
may have so may friends but you have only few friends who have influence in
your life. Very few friends have trust on you and you have trust on them. Same
way they will also trust the people who matter to them
They take a stand because they are not afraid to be wrong. So
they are not always right
If
you are not accepting truth and try to hide your fault after taking bold steps
then it is not a confidence
Confident
people don’t mind to being a proven wrong. For them finding out what is right is a lot more important than being right.
If they are wrong then they will accept it gracefully and appreciate your work
or thinking. They will always ready to say they are wrong. intellectual bullies
people never do it.
They will find their own path..
They
know the world is open for them. They never mind if they will not get
promotion, recognition or money. The main reason is they know how to get it.
What matter for them is knowledge? If they will not learn anything from the job
then they will quit in spite of so much money.
They
know now a day they can connect with anybody and finding something and
marketing is cheaper now a day. They know how to use social media?
They
will do it quietly without making any noise of dissatisfaction.
They never let down other people.
They
never do unnecessary gossip and speak badly for others. They will know if I
will try to let down others, tomorrow is there for me also. So they know what
is Respect and what are cheap comments.
They are good listener and thinks more than they speak.
Confident
people are quiet, modes and mot arrogant. They are clear about what they are
thinking but still they want to know what you think about their thinking.
They
know a lot, but they are ready to know more and they know the only way to learn
more is to listen everyone. They always ask open-ended questions that give
other people to freedom to be interactive and importance of the topics:
They always find the big obstacles so Other people may take
advantage to solve it.
They
have ability to turn the people in high performance team, even they are
desperate. They will find the major obstacles and overcome it, even they will
give equal chance to others also. Sometime they stand back and give chance to
others to come in spotlight. It is their sign for greatness even.
They
don’t wont other will proud for them because they know what they achieve. They
don’t need glory.
Always ask for help if needed and never shy or show nervousness
to do so
Request
for help is not a sign of weakness. They never shy to do it. They will never
hide their weakness and will learn from others. They will respect individual’s
knowledge and help. They are always hungry for knowledge. So, never mind if
someone say him foolish.
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